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--- CHOOSE BY EXERCISE NUMBER --- I.1 - Chart Your Course I.2 - Taking Charge of Change I.3 - Unpack Loaded and Vague Words I.4 - Doing Love and Intamacy I.5 - Track the Problems and Solutions I.6 - Identify and Validate your Partner's Feelings I.7 - Changing Character Indictements I.8 - Identify What Has Worked and Do More of That I.9 - Little Things Mean A Lot I.10 - Keep One Eye on the Road I.11 - Time Travel I.12 - What is Your Map of Love-Land I.13 - Acknowledgement I.14 - Catch Your Partner Doing Something Right I.15 - Let Your Partner know What Behaviors You Like I.16 - Just the Facts Ma'am I.17 - Map the Problem I.18 - Breaking Patterns I.19 - Don't Get Even Get Odd I.20 - Change the Context I.21 - Negotiating Impasses I.22 - Choreagraph an Argument I.23 - Go Ape I.24 - Letter to the Problem I.25 - Going Postal Instead of Going Postal I.26 - Lighten Your Load I.27 - Can Do I.28 - Plant a Tree
--- CHOOSE ALPHABETICALLY --- Acknowledgment Breaking Patterns Can Do Catch your partner doing something right Change the Context Changing character indictements to actions descriptions Chart Your Course Choregraph an argurement Doing Love and Intimacy Don't get even get odd Go Ape Going postal instead of going postal Identify and validate your partners fellings and point of view Identify what has worked and do moreof that Just the Facts Ma'am Keep one eye on the road Let your partner know what behaviors you woule like Letter to the Problem Lighten Your Load Little things mean alot Map the problem Negotating impasses Plant a Tree Taking Charge of Change Time Travel Track the problems and solutions Unpack loaded and vague words What is your map of love land
--- CHOOSE BY EXERCISE NUMBER --- II.1 - Value Your Differences II.2 - Accountability II.3 - Restoring Trust and Faith II.4 - Inequities II.5 - Feeling Responsible II.6 - Intimacy II.7 - Styles of an Motivation for Arguing II.8 - Forgiveness II.9 - Money Financial Conflicts II.10 - A Common Destiination II.11 - Negotiating Social Preferences
--- CHOOSE ALPHABETICALLY --- A Common Destination Accountability Feeling Responsible Forgiveness Inequities Intimacy Money Financial Conflicts Negotating Social Preferences Restoring Trust and Faith Styles of and motivatiion for arguring Value Your Differences
--- CHOOSE BY EXERCISE NUMBER --- III.1 - Chronic or Unproductive arguments III.2 - Verbal Abuse III.3 - Boxing Clutter III.4 - Separating work from home life III.5 - Planned Sponanity III.6 - A Safe Place for Traumatic Memories III.7 - Lateness III.8 - How to support a partner with a chronic or serious illness III.9 - Set Limits with consequencies III.12 - Dealing with Impotence III.13 - Help for Premature ejacualtion III.14 - Initiation Week III.15 - Lightening up about sexuality and weight gain III.16 - A Time to Remember III.17 - Parenting III.18 - In-Law Problems III.19 - Get a RoomMate III.20 - Circle the Wagons
--- CHOOSE ALPHABETICALLY --- A Safe Place for Traumatic Memories A Time to Remember Boxing Clutter Chronic or Unproductive arguments Circle the Wagons Dealing with Impotence Get a RoomMate Help for Premature ejacualtion How to support a partner with a chronic or serious illness Initiation Week In-Law Problems Lateness Lightening up about sexuality and weight gain Parenting Planned Sponanity Separating work fromhome life Set Limits with consequencies Verbal Abuse
