LIFE AREA |
SELF
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PARTNER
CURRENT |
| COMMUNICATION LIFE |
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| 1. Degree of listening skill |
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| 2. Degree of sensitivity and respect |
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| 3. Degree of honesty |
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| 4. Degree of openness |
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| 5. Degree of flexibility/compromise |
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| HOME LIFE |
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| 6. Degree of satisfaction with household responsibilities |
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| 7. Degree of completing household responsibilities |
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| 8. Degree of role flexibility |
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| 9. Degree of good parenting skills |
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| WORK LIFE |
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| 10. Degree of fulfillment in own career |
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| 11. Degree of comfort with partner's career |
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| 12. Degree of balance between work/home life |
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| LOVE LIFE |
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| 13. Degree of acceptance of other |
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| 14. Degree of mutual understanding |
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| 15. Degree of trust in other |
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| 16. Degree of expressed (spoken) love |
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| 17. Degree of Implied (unspoken) love |
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| 18. Degree of forgiveness in relationship |
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| SEXUAL LIFE |
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| 19. Degree of frequency |
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| 20. Degree of satisfaction |
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| 21. Degree of excitement in lovemaking |
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| 22. Degree of variety In lovemaking |
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| SPIRITUAL LIFE |
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| 23. Degree of spiritual belief |
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| 24. Degree of |
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| 25. Degree of comfort with spiritual expression |
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| PROBLEM SOLVING LIFE |
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| 26. Ability to talk about problems (get them in the open) |
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| 27. Ability to work through problems |
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| 28. Ability to "fight fair" |
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| 29. Ability to resolve family-of-origin
problems |
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| DREAM FOR THE FUTURE LIFE |
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| 30. Degree that your dream is also his/hers |
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| 31. Degree that your dream is mutually decided |
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