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Self- Test

Is There Enough Love and Respect in your Marriage?

Answer True or False.....

1. My spouse seeks out my opinions.
2. My spouse cares about my feelings.
3. I feel ignored often.
4. We touch each other a lot.
5. We listen to each other.
6. We respect each other's ideas.
7. We are affectionate toward one another.
8. I feel that my partner takes good care of me.
9. What I say counts.
10. I am important in our decisions.
11. There's lots of love in our marriage.
12. We are genuinely interested in one another.
13. I just love spending time with my partner.
14. We are very good friends.
15. Even during rough times, we can be empathetic.
16. My spouse is considerate of my viewpoint.
17. My spouse finds me physically attractive.
18. My partner expresses warmth toward me.
19. I feel included in my partner's life.
20. My spouse admires me.

Scoring: If the person chooses "True" to fewer than seven items, then it is likely he or she is not feeling adequately loved and respected in the marriage.

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