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WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS?
What Do I Want ~ Need In This Relationship?
My good feelings about who I am stem from being liked by you.
My good feelings about who I am stem from receiving approval by you; your
struggles affect my serenity.
My mental attention focuses on solvlng your problems or relieving your pain.
My mental attention is focused on pleaslng you.
My mental attention is focused on protecting you.
My mental attention is focused on manlpulatlng you "to do it my
way".
My self-esteem Is bolstered by rellevlng your pain.
My own hobbies and interests are put aside. My time is spent sharing your
interests and hobbies.
Your clothing and personal appearance Is dictated by my desires as I feel you
are a reflection of me.
Your behavior is dictated by my desires as I feel you are a reflection of me.
I am not aware of how I feel. I am aware of how you feel. I am not aware of
what I want; I ask what you want. If I am not aware, I assume.
The dreams I have for my future are linked to you.
My fear of rejection determines what I say and do.
My fear of your anger determines what I say and do.
I use giving as a way of feeling safe in our relationship.
My social circle diminishes as I involve myself with you.
I put my values aside in order to connect with you.
I value your opinion and way of doing things more than my own.
The quality of my life is in relation to the quality of yours.
